Friday, October 22, 2010

Catching Up Randomness - September & October

The title says it all...here's to playing a little catch-up. 
This picture is so poor because Kyle wisely put down the camera in order to rescue our little monkey from herself. Needless to say that low chest isn't next to the bookshelf anymore. The only thing we really have to watch out for now is her using our desk chairs to get up on the desk - she wants to blog.



Okay, now we're going way back...but wanted to share a few photos from Cousin Bailey's third birthday party in September. Aggie theme - so much fun!

Of course, Rebecca loves balloons.
Bailey & Emmy
Birthday girl with birthday hotdog.
Birthday family. Say cheese!
Presents are AWESOME!
Baby Brother Blake probably wondering, "what's all the fuss?"
Bailey got some headbands and Rebecca figured out exactly what to do with them. She already likes her accessories!
Yum.
I think this was the day after his dreaded haircut. (You'll be happy to know the curls are definitely on their way back!)
Okay, now this is totally changing subjects (no police at Bailey's party). A couple of weeks ago we were woken up by a loud knock on the door and a police officer telling us to put on some shoes and come outside. We were so freaked out! What had we done? What had somebody else done??? We go outside and there are 5 squad cars! So, it ends up that a police officer drove his car into a rocky terrace/embankment in the front of our yard. Their only explanation was that "the road curved and he didn't". Okay. The picture doesn't do it justice. So, really no big deal, but now our poor landlord is dealing with the city bureaucracy of getting it re-landscaped. Ahhh, the beauty of renting!
Totally asleep in his chair at lunch (yes, still in his pajamas).
Still hanging out in one of her favorite spots.
This fire truck used to be red. It's been outside so long now it's faded to pink and just perfect for Rebecca in size and color!
Owen on his new (birthday present) "hot walk" bike...notice there are no pedals or gears. The idea is that he'll learn to balance by just scooting himself along, gradually picking up his feet more and more until he sort of glides around - and all without training wheels! Cousin Bailey is a speed demon on hers and Owen is picking it up slowly but surely!
I am such a big boy!
I want to be just like big brother!
I'm not sure it gets much cuter than this...check out how dirty her dress is!
Rebecca Tidbits:
  • This girl loves her ACCESSORIES, or rather, mine. She loves trying to get into my jewelry and figures out ways to make her own. Example: the lid of a mason jar = bracelet. She is also sporting an actual little girl hairstyle now! (One little clippy pulling the "bangs" back and to the side.) It's better than the comb-over we had going on before. My mom put her in her first ever pig-tails a few weeks ago and they were funny looking at best.  
  • She is a MASTER POINTER. She points at everything, all the time. And when you get her what she was pointing to she just starts pointing to something else. Exhausting.
  • She TALKS all the time. Only "Ma Ma" and "Da da" are discernable, but there is some sort of squeaky squably noise coming out of her mouth at all times. (She still mixes up saying/pointing to momma and dadda correctly, but at least she says momma about as much as she says dadda now!)
  • She is now a ONE NAP girl. I consider my ability to get O and R to nap at the same time in the afternoon a key determining factor in the success of my day. It's an obsession.
  • Following in Owen's footsteps, she likes to "ride" the rocking horse STANDING UP.
  • Knows a little BABY SIGN LANGUAGE. Just as Owen had his own version of "all done" so does Rebecca. She just waves her hands all over the place (video forthcoming). She also has her own sign for "more" but she mostly means "milk" or rather, more milk. She just touches her pointer finger to the open palm of her other hand. Like, put it right here Momma!
  • She opened a sprite can and a beer bottle today within about 2 minutes. Opened via explosion. Bored with milk and juice?
  • She knows "KISSES". If I ask for Rebecca's kisses, she leans into my face with her mouth wide open and sort of tries to eat my nose. Close enough.
  • Outside of her almost incessant DANCING (to toys, Owen singing, real music, pretty much anything!), the cutest thing she is doing right now is playing PEEKABOO. When I say "where is Rebecca?" she puts her hands on her face (sometimes covering her eyes, sometimes not), sometimes just rubbing her fingers all over her face and through her hair. When I say "there she is!" she throws her hands up and giggles then claps. I could sit and do this with her for hours. Okay, just minutes--but lots of them.
  • At the age where she actually DISOBEYS. What? Our little princess? Yes. She's doing the requisite toddler move of rubbing her hands all over her high chair tray sending her food all over the floor - just for fun. And she's also sitting down when she doesn't want to go somewhere. Unlucky for her we can still pick her up!

Owen Tidbits:
  • Until about a month ago, when Owen would wake up from the night or from a nap he would stay in his bed and call out for us (usually me) until someone came in to get him out of bed, even though he could climb out of his bed with ease if he wanted. Not sure what changed, but I guess he just realized he was a big boy and so now he "WAKES UP ON HIS OWN". It made him very proud the first couple of times. To be honest, I wasn't in love with the new way because I liked the control, but I'm over it now. He's so cute wandering into our room in the morning in the dark, dragging his green blankie, and maybe his Thomas, blue frog, puppy dog, crocodile and pillow. He doesn't travel light.
  • Sometimes kids say things better than we ever could...After a "DISCIPLINARY EVENT," Owen told me "Dadda is not what doing what I'm saying and I'm not doing what Dadd'a ssaying". So true.
  • Speaking of discipline, we have a new weapon in our arsenal. Such a simple recommendation from our pediatrician is making such a big difference with our little ARGUER. Just like you might tell a kid before you leave that "we are going to play for 5 minutes and then we're going little Johnny," we're taking that to a whole new level. We pretty much give Owen a warning for everything (e.g. in a few minutes I'm going to tell you its time for your nap, in a few minutes I'm going to tell you its time for dinner, etc.) and then we take it the next step and say "and when I do, you're going to say "yes ma'am or yes momma" and obey".) He usually says something like, "or I'll say, ' yes-sir-y-bobby-mommy'!" and then when it's time that's pretty much how it goes. Seriously? We're not at 100% by any means, but it's surprising to both Kyle and I how far a little BEHAVIOR COACHING can go!
  • I printed some fill-in-the-blank THANK YOU NOTES for Owen to use to thank his birthday party guests for the awesome presents they gave him. I just had him say what he liked about each gift and wrote it down--his words, no editing. I should have kept an entire list because some of them were pretty funny. Here are the ones I remember:
    • Telescope: Because I like to put the moon and the stars in it.
    • Bike helmet: I like it because I do.
    • Crocodile dentist game: I like that he has teeth and likes to chomp but he's a nice crocodile too.
    • I don't remember what he liked about it but I do know Owen calls Handy Manny "Handy Mandy"...
  • Kyle and I go back and forth as to which of our delightful kiddos requires more energy these days. Rebecca is certainly all over the place and a danger to herself (and our stuff). But Owen acts like we're his own personal Wikipedia (Kyle calls it MOMMY-PEDIA). It is a constant, and I mean constant, barrage of questions. What do trains do? What do people do? What is protein? Where do cockatoo's live? Our only management strategy is to try to get him to play a little game where we at least take turns saying things that ________ do because most of his questions he already knows the answer to.
  • On that note, I guess I've been making lots of "YOU EXHAUST ME" kind of breaths (you know, loud exhales, pause...) because Owen has started noticing them and asking me "Momma, why are you breathing like that?". I guess I need an attitude check too sometimes!

Okay, and this is the BEST OWEN STORY we've had in a while. We have a new family friend - a UT graduate student from China named Yiyi. She lives in our neighborhood and we had her over for dinner a few weeks ago. We had a great time. She is super sweet and loves learning about our culture form an actual real American family (did you know that something like 97% of international students in the US never go inside an American home???). Anyways, she was great at entertaining Owen's questions about "pandas in the mountains of China" etc. Okay, so here's the funny part. Owen and I loaded up in the van with Yiyi to take her home - just a few blocks away. When we pull into her apartment complex Owen says:

(Huge "eureka inhale")...."IS THIS CCCHHHIIINNNAAA???!!!???!!!"

Yiyi and I both got a big kick out of it. He was sooooo excited to maybe be making his first trip to China. I think he half expected to see a panda!

Okay, that's it for us. One of these days I'll get some pics up of our trip to Italy!

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Owen Turned Three!

We had a great little birthday party for Owen at one of our favorite Austin parks last Friday (on his actual birthday - the 8th). Pizza, cupcakes, a pinata, a playground with lots of dirt/rocks to play in and all our family and friends. I think we all had a great time - I know Owen did!
 The five oldest kids, Owen (from school), our Owen, Emmy, Ben and Bailey - made up a little game where they ran around and then dove into the gravel over and over again. There was a goal, we're just not sure what it was. But how fun to actually see them play together!
 The grandparents on my side: Pam, Bee, Jo Jo and Dahdo.
 Parents-to-be Tobin & Ryan: just taking in all the kid-chaos!
Mel & Katie: Serious Mom-Talk
 Uncle Luke wrangling Bailey & Blake
4/5 Pony Tails (my running group): Michelle, Amber, me, Jessica (with baby Beckett)
 Caz & Jess with Beck: what a cute family!
 Uncle Alex - so professional he's not any fun anymore (can't you tell?) - with Dahdo & Rebecca
 The kids waiting patiently for the candles to be lit...every kiddo gets a candle to blow out, but the birthday boy got three.
 The girls are SO ready.
 Owen informed us before the party that he didn't want anyone saying "yea" to him when they said "happy birthday" (?). He also told Kyle that he didn't want any singing, but I didn't know that when I started the song...luckily there wasn't a protest.
 Yum!
 Emmy was the only kiddo who wore her super-hero cape (party favor). I can always count on this girl to dress up!
 Nathan with his train conductor hat - he rocked it.
 Pinata time was an adventure. The kids actually did great waiting in line and taking turns.
 Emmy definitely had the strongest hit with the most accuracy - softball contender? Very impressive.
 Bailey
 Owen from school
 Ben from down the street
 Nathan
 Even Rebecca with Bee's help
 Birthday boy again
 Boone wanted his turn too!
 Jo Jo and Rebecca watching the action.
 Alex making his "picture face"
 Kyle and Owen finally did the pinata in with a few decisive blows. Teamwork!
 They actually just filled a couple of big bags full of all the candy and each took a piece. I was amazed at how little candy-craze there actually was. Maybe thanks to the cupcakes in their bellies.
 Rebecca, Bee, Owen, Jo Jo
 Owen opening presents. Real cowboy boots!
 Yes, that's a toy abacus.
 Bee with her telescope for ages 8 and up.
 Bee and Rebecca watching a balloon go bye-bye.
 Whew, but there were plenty more balloons. All is right with the world.
 The cupcakes. Only a kid would willfully eat that fondant stuff. Sugar!!!
 I tried on Owen's astronaut helmet, but it was actually Emmy who wore it all night.
 Nana with Gen 1.

All in all I think it was another successful birthday party. My favorite part was actually just that Owen totally knew what was going on and was actually anticipating the party and seeing all his friends and eating cake, etc. It was really fun to see how excited he was! If he grows up to love birthdays half as much as I do I'll be happy! :)

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Worst Haircut Ever

I have been a little hard on Kyle when he's brought Owen home from getting a haircut and its too short..well today it happened on my watch. Big time. Kyle told me he's never going to feel bad again. 

Any resemblance?


"Momma, where did my turls doh?"--break my heart!
 Why is it soooooo hard to get a decent haircut for a little guy???

(See the super-long baby book update post below.)

Friday, September 10, 2010

The Lawyer & The Sour Patch Kid

    Alright, get ready for a crazy-long post. I shant apologize! Here we go!!! This is our last post in what feels like summer...
    So I'd like to tell you that our kids never ever watch tv but that would be a bold-faced lie. We try to keep it to a minimum and ensure that what they're watching is appropriate if not at least a little educational...can't you see the mental wheels turning? Can't you see all they're learning from "Moose" and "Zee"? (Yea for the routine of fall...that there is less of this!)
     
    We are beyond blessed in the grandparent world. And we even have some "surrogate parents" we are lucky enough to throw into the mix whenever possible! Here is Greg Gilkerson (of the famed Gilkerson family) hanging out with the kiddos. Greg married us (though he's a businessman, not a pastor--scandalous, we know!) so he takes it upon himself to check in on us from time to time...we are soooo appreciative of his (and his wife Pam)'s friendship and wisdom!
    Speaking of grandparents...Here is Bee hiding under Owen's bed (at his direction) for a game of hide-and-seek. Rebecca is very pleased with the game as well!
    We forgot to bring Rebecca's little booster seat to Nana's for a meal one night so she went old school and just tied her to the chair with a kitchen cloth. It totally worked. Strong work Nana!
    There must be something in the Grandparent Handbook that mandates spoiling kids and my dad will tell you they don't do it but I have proof to the contrary. It may not be M&Ms...but this sure looks like a treat to me! I believe it's called "Rice Dream" and is some sort of non-dairy "ice cream" treat. (Okay, I'll admit I've eaten them and they're actually pretty good.)
     Ahhhhh...a satisfied customer with an organic chocolate goatee to prove it!
    Sometimes we think we're gluttons for punishment by the way we pack fun into our lives. Having our cake and eating it too??? We joined in with some of our favorite throw-caution-to-the-wind comrades (the Mezgers and the Fosheas) and went to the Mezger (Faubion, really) Ranch for Labor Day. First we spent some time swimming/hanging out at "the Slab" (a low portion of the Llano River) and then hung out for the rest of the day at the ranch house where all things moo-y and prickly live. And I can actually say that we had a great (and relaxing!) day! (Can you hear the surprise in my voice?) Here are the 3 oldest kiddos (of 6) with their walking sticks out on a little nature adventure.
    Here is Owen on his first day of school. This is his second year at Westminster and he's really been excited to go back. He's going two mornings a week and is fond of telling people that he's "too big for Mrs. Ouida's class this year" (his class from last year). He's also done a great job adjusting to the fact that there are THREE, yes THREE Owen's in his class (10 kids, 5 boys, 3 Owen's). Say WHAT??? And we thought we were being at least a little creative with his name.
    Say cheese!!!
    OWEN IS:
  • CURIOUS: Owen really wants to know how everything works. When he says "let's talk about _____" you had better get ready to come up with answer about how something works. How blinkers work (I probably explained this 20 times in a 15 minute drive because he kept saying "let's talk about it AGAIN!"), what kinds of clouds there are (he told his teacher last week he wants a telescope), how trees get food and grow (roots!). This morning he asked how you make cheese from milk and if we could make some. Suggestions anyone?
  • He can't hear a word he doesn't know and not ask what it means which is presented quite a challenge because "his song" is Be Thou My Vision and "Rebecca's song" is Come Thou Fount and they use phrases like "fettered," "courts above," "flaming tongues," "melodious sonnet"...you get the idea.  We've also had to define love, mercy, and grace in a way an almost 3-year old can understand. Wow--just praying we can take advantage of such a teachable spirit!
  • CREATIVE: Owen is always making things up. Words that mean entire phrases or actions (remember "Jumumgi" that meant "don't mess with my toys"?), games (most of them closely resemble chase or hide-and-go-seek), stories about Frankie and the gang, new words to tunes he knows (Old MacDonald about his train "Big Brown"), etc. etc. etc. He's even made up a few new kisses. One is called the "home kiss"--it's your basic sweet peck on the lips. He likes to pair it with the "Mexican kiss" which is when our cheeks touch. He'll say "now it's time for Mexican kiss, home kiss, Mexican kiss, home kiss...now that's enough kisses."
  • ENCOURAGER: Owen has started telling Kyle and I that "You are my best Momma/Dadda"to which I like to reply "You are my best Owen"...how sweet is that?
  • He has started saying things like "Momma, you make the best lunch I ever had!" (at every meal). 
  • The other day I found a toy we had been looking for and he said "Good eye Momma!". 
  • He is using the phrase "really cool" a lot. He sounds so grown up except that the R still sounds like a W. I love that.
  • PARTICULAR: Owen likes things the way he likes things. But he also likes changing his mind. He used to like to be tucked into his covers like he was in a little blue cocoon--very tight, all wrapped up. Now he likes his blanket spread out smooth on top of him (no wrinkles!) "like Maria does it!". (Maria is the sweet woman who comes to the house every couple of weeks to help me clean - Yes, I know I'm spoiled).
  • Even though he's particular, we made it through something that could have been very very challenging...the loss of Green Blankie. GB disappeared at my dad's house over a week ago and was searched for high and low. We went without it for a week and there were a few rough naptimes because his GB replacement was "too bumpy" but we made it through. Just about the time he had adjusted to the new routine sans GB they found it!!! It was stuck behind their flat screen tv (not on the floor--we looked there, but on the wall, suspended on the arm that attaches the tv to the wall). Apparently Owen tossed it back there but he had no memory of doing so...
  • FATALIST: He's using "never" and "always" a lot (not always correctly). Example: I told him he couldn't wear his pajamas to school to which he replied "Now I'll NEVER get to wear my pajamas!!!" (Then walks away pouting.) What???
  • A LAWYER: This is a nice way of saying we're going through a phase categorized by a lot of arguing and negotiating. Owen is really skilled at both. 
  • The other day in the car he asked if we could go home (as opposed to where we were going) and Kyle told him no and he replied "I'm only going to ask you one more time...let's go home". When Kyle told him no again he asked again...about 15 more times. That's a pretty clear indication that we have some serious room for improvement in the parental consistency department!
  • When he doesn't want to follow directions he'll say he lost his blinker and can't. Example: I say "Owen, please go to your room so we can get you dressed for the day." He'll go down the hall but then turn into our room instead saying "I can't find my green blinker. I can't turn." His green and purple blinkers seem to disappear a lot. But if you play along with the game and "find the blinker" and "put it back in his tummy" he'll suddenly be able to obey. Thoughts?
  • One success we're having in this area is that he's learning some patience when it comes to waiting his turn to talk. He'll say pretty quietly "Momma, I have something to ask/tell you" and then he'll wait. He's also understanding "attitude". He can very easily point out when a character in a book has a good or bad attitude (example: The Little Engine That Could has trains that won't help out and he says "dats not a very good attitude!") 
  • Conversation between Kyle and Owen:
    • O: Can I watch a show?
    • K: No, we're not going to watch a show right now buddy.
    • O: But I WANT to watch a show!!!
    • K: Owen, Dadda said no.
    • O: That's not a very good attitude! 
    • O: (minutes later to himself) How about "absolutely" or "yes sir-ee". (pause) Dadda, I've made up a new word. It is called "YES!". (pause) Yes. Yes. Yes. 
    • O: (minutes later) Daddy, how about you try saying it: Yes! Try it! Yes yes yes!

REBECCA IS:

A doctor? Paging Dr. Mezger!
      Her favorite toy for a few weeks was the blood pressure cuff in Owen's doctor kit but it broke so she moved on to the toy stethoscope (although she definitely prefers Kyle's real one). The best part is this is ALL Rebecca--no coaching or modelling. Owen doesn't play with this the same way and I don't think Kyle has ever come home with a stethoscope around his neck.
    • GROWING: She is outgrowing her 18 mo clothes and will be into mostly 24 mo clothes this fall! Thank goodness for cousin Bailey's wardrobe loaners! She also got her 6th tooth (even is nice) at the end of August...that's 4 on top and 2 on the bottom. 
    • She is making a lot more noises that are all her own. She has very distinctive squeaks/sighs (a lot of them are made while she inhales so they sound like little surprised gasps. At the end of August added "Uh oh" to her vocabulary. Her first word really. She says it really smooshed together and breathy--"Uuuohh". She's begun to throw her milk on the floor at meal time just so she can say it. Love this phase. :)
    •  A CLIMBER: She has figured out she can pull herself up onto lots of little pieces of furniture, window sills, etc. and she likes it! She's a lot more agile and fearless than we remember Owen being at this age. She likes to pull herself up on things, stand up and clap for herself. Yea Rebecca!
    •  MATERNAL: Those girly instincts kick in early folks! She is all about her "babies" (big debate on whether that might actually have been her first word)--she definitely points to them if you say it. She loves loves loves to carry them around and poke their eyes (she knows "eyes" too). 
    • Like Owen's GB, Rebecca has gravitated towards a little "lovie" of her own--two actually. A little pink bear I call "pinkie" and a little giraffe/blanket we just call "lovie". 
    • Along with maternal I'll just add that she likes shoes (since that's a girly thing too). She is always finding and carrying around our shoes. And she got some new shoes the other day and she is very interested in the velcro, taking them off and putting them in her mouth, (I put them back on her) and repeat.
    • SOUR PATCH KID: Remember those candies? Sour gummies covered in sugar so they're sweet at first and then tart towards the end. I've been calling Rebecca our little SPK because she is definitely sweet (we've known that for a while) but her, shall we say cantankerous-ness, is starting to really come through. Oh, that look she gives me (with a smile mind you) when she's about to do something "questionable"...
    • When I'm putting her to sleep at night she sits on my lap facing me and will occasionally lean in and put her head on my chest, or flop over onto my arm (SWEET). I'll think she's calming down and then she'll all of a sudden sit back up and poke me in the eye or put her entire mouth around my nose (kiss?) and squeal with delight (SWEET & SOUR). Lather, rinse, repeat. 

    Just to clarify--we aren't projecting futures as a doctor or lawyer or anything on these wonderful kiddos...that's not the point. It's just so fun to see their little (and unique!) personalities develop step by step and we can't help but imagine what God might be gifting them for in the future...in His timing according to His plan. :)